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by Tired
Tue May 07, 2024 10:41 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Turn face to the sun
Replies: 9
Views: 158

Re: Turn face to the sun

I particularly liked this post, thank you, concernedmum I personally don't like the words stay positive. It can add pressure on yourself. Pockets of happiness suits me better. Had a bad day today following a procedure in hospital, But, that's not to say, sitting in my garden today and trying to read...
by Tired
Sat Apr 27, 2024 9:52 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: I can’t stop crying
Replies: 8
Views: 253

Re: I can’t stop crying

Dear maloney I hope that you are OK. I totally get your feelings, and my ex wasn't even in recovery. You feel used and let down that they are not putting you as a priority. I will say as others advise, take it slowly, and think of You now, and do things for yourself. It's not easy I know, as your th...
by Tired
Sat Apr 27, 2024 9:42 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Getting him to leave
Replies: 22
Views: 459

Re: Getting him to leave

Olderbutwiser

Wishing you peace now in your home.

Xc
by Tired
Thu Apr 11, 2024 11:22 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: The glimmer of hope .. sadly remains a faltering glimmer
Replies: 12
Views: 291

Re: The glimmer of hope .. sadly remains a faltering glimmer

Good luck DQ

You have been supportive to me on this forum over the tears.
by Tired
Thu Apr 04, 2024 9:24 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: The final straw hopefully
Replies: 11
Views: 276

Re: The final straw hopefully

Thinking of you Myfamily All the replies on here are sadly true. They will only ever think of themselves whilst using. I have been doing OK, but I slip if I hear from my ex. I got told on Monday when I stupidly asked "you never ask about me". I was told why would I phone to ask that. And t...
by Tired
Fri Mar 22, 2024 11:19 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Death by Duvet
Replies: 8
Views: 174

Re: Death by Duvet

No rules Lesrose

It can be so overwhelming down days, but I know this much.

You have been a massive support to me and many others in this forum for years.

You are well thought of for sure.

Xxxx
by Tired
Sat Feb 17, 2024 4:05 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Feeling lost
Replies: 12
Views: 324

Re: Feeling lost

Hello S90

You are really not alone by coming on this forum.

Sadly, they blame everyone and everything, apart from themselves. I wasted years and years on my ex.

Please remain on here to offload, anything, as its been a huge support to me for years.
by Tired
Sat Feb 10, 2024 11:05 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: So sad , but hanging in there
Replies: 44
Views: 1191

Re: So sad , but hanging in there

I am so sorry to read your posts.

This forum is such a support, so please check in.

Xxx
by Tired
Tue Feb 06, 2024 10:39 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: HOPE
Replies: 10
Views: 1603

Re: HOPE

Happy says, am so pleased for you.
by Tired
Sun Feb 04, 2024 5:45 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Struggling
Replies: 7
Views: 803

Re: Struggling

Thank you all. She is on her last chance. I have had a peaceful weekend, so, now that any chaos in my home, she is out. Locks will be changed. She's my only daughter, and we are such a small family, but the way she deflected from being caught red handed at having him stay here on day 1 of my hols, h...
by Tired
Sat Feb 03, 2024 5:00 am
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Here we go again!
Replies: 35
Views: 3919

Re: Here we go again!

Sending you a hug. X
by Tired
Fri Feb 02, 2024 12:21 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Struggling
Replies: 7
Views: 803

Re: Struggling

Thank you, and agree if no consequences, she will continue. I'm hardly talking with her as I'm feeling so unwell with it all. I just want SOLACE, like us all. The consequence is that it's the last time I have asked her not to sneak him into my safe haven. I am not sure whether it's an accumulation o...
by Tired
Fri Feb 02, 2024 12:16 am
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Struggling
Replies: 7
Views: 803

Struggling

Hiya all I feel a little bit embarrassed to post on here, as its not about my ex addict, though he has definitely contributed to my mental health. It's regarding my daughter. I don't know where to start other than in general area a good daughter, but she has chosen a partner who I, and her friends r...
by Tired
Thu Feb 01, 2024 9:18 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Have you lost your tongue to your addict??
Replies: 10
Views: 1077

Re: Have you lost your tongue to your addict??

Evening all

Such good advice and support for you Exhausted, and, I can imagine you are mentally and physically exhausted.

Sending you a virtual hug.
Xx
by Tired
Wed Jan 17, 2024 7:54 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: 17 year old son is an addict- next steps?
Replies: 16
Views: 1607

Re: 17 year old son is an addict- next steps?

My deepest condolences to you drama queen. Xx