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by Justina
Sat Sep 30, 2017 2:44 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Up and downs
Replies: 2
Views: 1957

Up and downs

Hello all I'm sorry to have not have posted for a while or been there for support . My daughter 20 years old did move to her Father's so out of sight etc I have been coping a little better although it never goes away. I had comments from my ex like ...Now she's with me she will be fine ! ...now she'...
by Justina
Wed Jul 19, 2017 9:53 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: please help
Replies: 3
Views: 2290

Re: please help

Thanks to both of you for your replies plus the person who messaged me . I'm so thankful to you but could not manage to reply to your private message . It made me cry and I'm very touched by your kind words . I agree with all you say today and hope you read this rather that wait for a private mail. ...
by Justina
Tue Jul 18, 2017 8:13 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: please help
Replies: 3
Views: 2290

please help

Hi all
I need a quick answer . My daughter has just posted ....surrounded by black and white , need to get some colour !!!!
In the drug world I've looked it up but am I paranoid . Would you post that unrelated to drugs . Please help me out here asap . Feel I'm going mad x
by Justina
Fri Jul 07, 2017 4:40 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Just need somewhere to let it out
Replies: 4
Views: 2996

Re: Just need somewhere to let it out

Hello there I'm so pleased you were able to let it out here . I really do feel for you . It must be so hard after all these years. 9 years is a long time and that's really good for him. Do you know what triggered him to start using again. Was it anything specific or did it just happen ? I hope you d...
by Justina
Tue Jun 27, 2017 11:07 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Haven't posted in a while, light at the end of the tunnel
Replies: 3
Views: 2770

Re: Haven't posted in a while, light at the end of the tunne

That's such good news . I'm pleased for him and pleased for you :) I've not posted here for a while either because my daughter has been out of my sight for periods , out of sight etc, but knowing she has a roof over her head at her Dad's ! Things have got better my end too and I always say there is ...
by Justina
Sat Jun 03, 2017 5:49 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: New Phase
Replies: 3
Views: 2598

Re: New Phase

Hello Strongminded You certainly are strong with how you have decided what you will do. It must be so very difficult when your kids are so young . My daughter is an addict 19 ! and its hard enough dealing with adult family members but as someone else has mentioned , explaining that he has an illness...
by Justina
Wed May 24, 2017 11:22 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: tearing my family apart
Replies: 4
Views: 3071

Re: tearing my family apart

Many hugs to you onedayatatime
Sorry, can't write much more at this mo as so tired as it's 12.21 lol
Take care
xxx
by Justina
Wed May 24, 2017 10:42 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Throw out the old
Replies: 3
Views: 2157

Re: Throw out the old

All I can add is a big thank you to all of you that have sadly run this path for alot longer than myself . I wish that was not the case for you suffering but you have all given me much inspiration to move on, carry on and try not to lose myself inbetween the calm and the storm , or rather the manipu...
by Justina
Tue May 23, 2017 4:32 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: tearing my family apart
Replies: 4
Views: 3071

Re: tearing my family apart

Everything that you have said makes complete sense onedayatatime, so thank you . Yes, I get the piggy in the middle part so much and saddened to hear that your Mum is the way she is. Least I have one that really does care. I wonder what job you do ? , yes, think that is a great idea. I need to do th...
by Justina
Mon May 22, 2017 10:27 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: tearing my family apart
Replies: 4
Views: 3071

tearing my family apart

This is getting ridiculous I've fallen out with my mum because she's upset that I didn't tell her about my daughters latest worries instead of a friend , although she said that she didn't want to see ,my daughter until she was off drugs ?? She slammed the phone down on me :( saying she was upset bec...
by Justina
Fri May 19, 2017 9:32 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Fam Anon meetings
Replies: 5
Views: 3639

Re: Fam Anon meetings

Hello I'm so pleased you have shared your recent experience . I too am so grateful, in the little time I have spent on this site as it's early days for me , but feel it's such wonderful support . I'm glad you found the meeting useful, even if the 12 steps doesn't quite sit right with you , it doesn'...
by Justina
Wed May 17, 2017 11:13 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Here I am again being a pain
Replies: 2
Views: 2085

Re: Here I am again being a pain

You are not a pain ....You are in pain . There is a real difference and on here as you would tell others , nothing is a problem . Just let it all out . That is what we are all here for ! To support , listen and simply be here Don't ever feel alone ok Sending you hugs of understanding and never endin...
by Justina
Wed May 17, 2017 11:07 pm
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Bag of pills
Replies: 7
Views: 4755

Re: Bag of pills

Thanks all Just to say that the pills are ok ! They are protein things that she takes before the gym . It's a long story but yes, it's been a complete nightmare last couple of days !!!! Looking on line they look like mdma in a capsule with white powder in . Exactly the same as the ones in the tub sh...
by Justina
Wed May 17, 2017 11:48 am
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Bag of pills
Replies: 7
Views: 4755

Re: Bag of pills

Thank you
xx
by Justina
Wed May 17, 2017 11:26 am
Forum: Discussion Area
Topic: Bag of pills
Replies: 7
Views: 4755

Re: Bag of pills

Thank you so much . Yes, I agree with what you are saying . I know a pharmacy that I think would be discreat about this so think I will try today . I'm obviously concerned because she was carrying about 30 of them Will let you know the outcome. I know snooping around is not good but if she is supply...