And on it goes!
Posted: Tue May 04, 2021 5:53 am
Hi All,
My son had been remanded in prison, since the end of Nov 2020, until his release on 21st of April 2021. He has been using substances, morning til night, since release.
He had backdated benefit payments in his bank account, from when he was previously released May 2020, until he was imprisoned again in the Nov. He was remanded in custody before he had the opportunity to spend a penny. Quite a substantial amount. Hence the reason he had money to finance his drug use.
Saving grace, was that he was accomodated a good half hour drive away from me, and I felt sure I wouldn't have any unexpected visits.
He lost his bankcard, and that's when the same old cycle commenced. Relentless calls/txts requesting I take him money. No food. Nothing. I told him that I couldn't help him and to call his social worker. The abusive txts continued, therefore, the number was blocked. It seems I am his target, for vile abuse, every single time.
Thursday night, he appeared at my home. He must not have pressed the bell properly, as the plug in chime did not sound. I only discovered he had been at the door, when I woke, and checked the time on my phone, and saw an alert from the camera bell. He had attempted twice, leaving and coming back half an hour later
Next morning, the doorbell went at 7am. It was my son. I spoke to him through the bell, and asked him to leave, which he did. I then called the police to log both incidents. Later in the morning, I received a txt from an strange mobile, asking for money. He was apparently using a friends phone. I didnt answer the calls, just replied to the txts, that I couldn't help him. It eventually stopped, until Saturday morning.He sent abusive and vile txts. Threatening to come to my house. So I called the police , to log another incident. The police came to the house, took statements from myself and my husband. One of the police officers asked if I could take screenshots of the messages and email them to her, which I did. I then blocked this number also. They will put a note on their system, whatever it is they do, that should I call, if my son presents himself at my home, a rapid response team will respond. I will not accept this horrendous behaviour!
Ive spoken to social work, who assured me that if he is not engaging with them, and not fulfilling his responsibilities in relation to his probation, then she won't hesitate to revoke it, and he'll go back to prison. I hope this happens sooner, rather than later!.
(Jeezo! Written a novel!)
Much Love
L x
My son had been remanded in prison, since the end of Nov 2020, until his release on 21st of April 2021. He has been using substances, morning til night, since release.
He had backdated benefit payments in his bank account, from when he was previously released May 2020, until he was imprisoned again in the Nov. He was remanded in custody before he had the opportunity to spend a penny. Quite a substantial amount. Hence the reason he had money to finance his drug use.
Saving grace, was that he was accomodated a good half hour drive away from me, and I felt sure I wouldn't have any unexpected visits.
He lost his bankcard, and that's when the same old cycle commenced. Relentless calls/txts requesting I take him money. No food. Nothing. I told him that I couldn't help him and to call his social worker. The abusive txts continued, therefore, the number was blocked. It seems I am his target, for vile abuse, every single time.
Thursday night, he appeared at my home. He must not have pressed the bell properly, as the plug in chime did not sound. I only discovered he had been at the door, when I woke, and checked the time on my phone, and saw an alert from the camera bell. He had attempted twice, leaving and coming back half an hour later
Next morning, the doorbell went at 7am. It was my son. I spoke to him through the bell, and asked him to leave, which he did. I then called the police to log both incidents. Later in the morning, I received a txt from an strange mobile, asking for money. He was apparently using a friends phone. I didnt answer the calls, just replied to the txts, that I couldn't help him. It eventually stopped, until Saturday morning.He sent abusive and vile txts. Threatening to come to my house. So I called the police , to log another incident. The police came to the house, took statements from myself and my husband. One of the police officers asked if I could take screenshots of the messages and email them to her, which I did. I then blocked this number also. They will put a note on their system, whatever it is they do, that should I call, if my son presents himself at my home, a rapid response team will respond. I will not accept this horrendous behaviour!
Ive spoken to social work, who assured me that if he is not engaging with them, and not fulfilling his responsibilities in relation to his probation, then she won't hesitate to revoke it, and he'll go back to prison. I hope this happens sooner, rather than later!.
(Jeezo! Written a novel!)
Much Love
L x